A warning on the dangers of children around pools and the dangers of "secondary drowning." This story is brought to you by "The Delighted Momma" blog:
"Over the weekend I experienced one of the worst things since becoming a
mother. It was a moment where once the shock set in as to what might
actually happen a thousand memories, regrets...things that I wish I had
done differently that day flashed through my mind.
I tend to hesitate when it comes to sharing super personal experiences
on the blog since I like to keep some areas of my life private but this
particular event I decided that it was best to share, even though it
made me feel like the worst mom in the world. I felt like bringing
awareness to what happened may prevent something from happening like
this to you."
Here is the story:
"It was a pretty normal Saturday (or so I thought). We woke up early,
Ian and I made coffee and we had our weekend family tradition of
scrambled eggs. We played in the backyard and then Ronin and I headed
off to Target to pick up the usual necessities. On our way home I ran
over a nail and got a flat tire. Major bummer. 2 hours later we finally
got the spare on. At this point it was 2:30 in the afternoon and we
were supposed to be at my niece's birthday party at 3. Somehow I made
it home in time to shower, get the kids swim trunks on and get them all
sun screened up. We made it to the party at 3:30. It was a pool party
so all the cousins were in the pool, jumping around splashing and having
a great time. All the adults were also all outside sitting around and
enjoying the nice weather. I was watching Ronin who was sitting on the
big step on the spa, where he had basically stayed put since entering
the pool area.
Here is where everything went all wrong... I was sitting right on the
edge of the outside of the spa, just a few inches from where Ronin was
playing. I shifted my sitting position to talk to my sister-in-law. I
turned around for maybe 5 seconds tops. I turned back around to take a
peek at Ronin and he was not on the step. Mom panic and fear kicked into
overdrive. I frantically scanned the spa and saw him being whirled by
the jets to the other end of the spa where his little head was bobbing
up and down trying desperately to get air. I pulled him out as fast as I
possibly could. The whole ordeal was around 20 seconds from when he
fell into the water until when I got him out. Other than Ronin being
visibly upset and coughing to get the water out he seemed totally fine
after he had calmed down. I am the most over the top over paranoid mom
ever and I was so mad at myself that this happened literally inches away
from me! He did seem more tired than usual after it happened but I
figured he was exhausted from what just occurred combined with all the
heat and exercise he had had for the last few hours. We left the party
soon after.
At home Ronin just didn't seem like himself. It could have just been
chalked up to him being overly tired but I felt in my gut that it was
something else. He also started doing this weird cough that made him
tense up every time he exerted the effort. I wondered maybe he was
still just trying to cough up any water from earlier. I called my
pediatrician and left her a brief message explaining what had happened
and what his symptoms were at the moment. A few minutes later (that was
quick I thought as I answered the phone) she called me back. Now
Ronin's pediatrician is usually pretty calm. And most of the time when I
phone her for an "emergency" she says everything is going to be fine
and gives me a list of symptoms to watch for and tells me if my kids get
worse then to bring them in to be seen. Her motto is if it's not too
serious then it is better to care for my boys at home rather than
bringing them to the ER where they are exposed to all kinds of
sicknesses. This time was different. She was stern and said I needed to
take Ronin to the ER NOW because he could be experiencing what is
called secondary drowning. You can read more about what that is here.
I hung up and we all rushed to the ER. The nurses immediately brought
us back. Within moments the Dr was in. He got my story again and in a
scolding tone asked me why I didn't bring him in sooner. I told him
that right after it happened he seemed totally fine. I told him he was
breathing normal and gave no signs that he was in distress. He did not
like my answer and knowing what I do know now, I don't blame him. They
took Ronin's temp and it was 101. So weird since he was definitely not
sick that day.
The doctor ordered an immediate chest x-ray along with a whole list of
blood tests. At this point in the evening Ronin was acting limp and
almost unresponsive. Once the results were in the doctor came in with
the update. His facial expression did not look like it was going to
give good news. He said Ronin's blood work came back normal (that's
good I thought!) but....the chest x-rays were not good. He said his
lungs aspirated. Consequences
of this range from no injury at all, to chemical pnuemonitis (from the
chemicals in the spa), to death within minutes from asphyxiation. He
said at this point it was very serious and he needed to be ambulanced
immediately down to Children's Hospital in San Diego to see a Pediatric
Specialist. He said all the arrangements were already made and the
doctors and team of nurses were waiting for him. My heart crushed into a
million little pieces at that moment. I felt like it was literally
getting ripped out of my chest. This was my fault no matter how many
times people were telling me it was an accident and it could have
happened to anyone.
On the ambulance ride down to Children's Hospital Ronin's oxygen levels
started dropping. I watched as the little screen in front of him went
from 98% to 92% to 89% to 74%. The team on board scrambled to attach an
oxygen mask over his little face. I panicked! They tried to keep me
calm and told me he was okay but I have never felt so helpless in my
life. When we arrived at Children's hospital a pediatric specialist
along with 4 nurses were waiting for us. They brought us to our room
where there was a x-ray technician waiting. They did another chest
x-ray and more blood work. They told me at "this point" we just had to
monitor Ronin and wait. Wait for what?! They hooked him up to all kinds
of machines and we waited...all night long while Ian and I watched him
sleep. On Sunday the sweetest doctor came in and talked to us. She
told me that this freak accident called secondary drowning happens more
than I might think. She said we did the right thing of bringing Ronin
in and that many times it goes terribly wrong (such as parents putting
their kids down to sleep and then they never wake up again) because
parents think that there kids are fine if they start breathing normally
again after a near drowning incident. She also told us that there were 2
other little boys on the same floor as Ronin who were also there for
the same exact thing!
She said she was very pleased because the latest x-ray had shown that
the water trapped in his lungs was beginning to clear significantly.
The not so good news was that he had chemical pneumonitis due to the
chemicals from the spa getting trapped in his lungs. His lungs were
irritated and inflamed but she told us that things were looking better
despite the diagnosis. At this point she said the staff will monitor
him a little longer making sure a fever or other lung complications do
not arise.
Ronin woke up around 10am on Sunday. What I mean is for the
first time since the incident he woke up beyond pissed off that he had
all these little tubes on him, an IV in his arm and a heart beat monitor
wrapped tightly around his big toe. I have never in my life been more
happy to see such a grouchy little man! He was back and acting like his
normal Ronin self. The nurses came in because they heard him making
such a commotion. This was a great sign.
Later that day we got the news that Ronin was officially in the clear and was able to get discharged and go home. Praise God.
I am forever changed since this happened. I will not let this define me
but you can guarantee that I will be doing things much differently from
here on out. It was a huge wakeup call. And it really taught me that
yes...in just a few seconds your life can change forever. I got a too
close taste of what that really can be like.
Before Saturday I had never heard of secondary drowning. If I had heard
of it before I would have done things differently. I would have
brought him in the moment I noticed a change in his behavior even if it
was just me being over paranoid or thinking he was just exhausted from
the days activities.
What you need to know:
Secondary drowning
can be difficult to recognize since the victim appears to be ok right
after a near-drowning event. Your child may breath in a very small
amount of water and seem like they have successfully expelled it through
coughing. In secondary drowning the water may fill up some of the
oxygen rich pores of the lungs, which reduces the ability to oxygenate
blood as it passes through. The heart does not slow down significantly
with this process but rather very very slowly so your child will still
be able to talk and walk. The only symptoms may be a sudden change in
personality or level of awareness (just like Ronin experienced) as the
blood oxygen level drops over time.
So if your child has experienced a near drowning experience (it can
happen in as little water as a puddle or in the bathtub) watch for a
sudden change of personality or energy level. You can save your child's
life if you act quickly and get them medical treatment immediately.
I hope this brings awareness to all who read this. I am so thankful
that Ronin is okay and that I decided to not put him to bed that night
thinking everything was fine. I have said many many thank you prayers
over the past few days for that. I want to make sure this never happens
to another child so pass this on and please share with those who you
think might need to know."
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